Happy Sunday my loves !!
I had a totally different post for today , but after what was said to me last night I had to post about it .
So last night I was having a conversation with a male friend of mine.
He asked me " Why don't you do your hair ?" "Why don't you get a relaxer "
Why I don't I do my hair ?
Then he proceeded to say " From a mans perspective you should do something different to your hair"
I told him I love rocking my twist out and won't change it for a man .
Then he told me that " men don't like twist out and a twist out won't keep a man for long "
So basically what he just said to me is because I wear my hair natural I have won't be able to keep a man .
Well that's fine with me .
If the way I style my hair ( be it natural , relaxer or weave) is what I need to do to keep a man he doesn't need to be in my life . I love my natural hair. And if my natural hair is a factor to a man in order to be in a relationship with him , i don't need him in my life .
Oh but this was the funny part of the conversation . He says " Because your hair preference is just not cute and anybody who has told you otherwise wouldn't dare rock twist outs. They are lying to you. And you even went to a cosmetology school where they teach doing hair. It's a mystery how you can care about makeup but not nearly as much about your hair. "
So since I wear my hair natural I don't care about my hair ?
That makes no since.
Do people know how much work goes into having natural ?
3 hours or more to do mini twist on myself .
The bottles of conditioners we go through.
Trying to keep our hair moisturized at all times .
I could keep going but it's a lot .
I finally found a hair style I love . I've done the weaves and relaxers . I'm over it . I'm madly in love with my natural hair .
And if anyone has a problem with it they can keep it moving .
Embrace your curls !