Wednesday, April 17, 2019

Mistakes I've Made Dating: Part One

I'm definitely not a pro at dating
But is anyone?
I know I've made my fair share of mistakes when it comes to dating
My mistakes are lessons I've learned on my journey to meeting my Prince Charming
After all the lies and pain I've been through I know there is someone special out there for me
I've just kissed a few bad frogs on my journey to him
Will I meet him tomorrow,  one year from now or in five years
Who Knows?!
Here are a few mistakes I've made so far

 Ignoring The Red Flags and Excuse
I'm the queen of ignoring the red flags. Knowing something sounds like bullshit but hoping it was the truth. Letting stuff roll off my shoulders when I should have ended it when I heard it or saw something crazy. I always try to give someone the benefit of the doubt.  Consistent flaking on dates, periods of time of that person disappearing is some of the key things I would overlook. Making up excuses in my head to cover their actions.

 Not Multi-Dating
I have a horrible habit of talking to one guy and ignoring all the other guys because of one guy and not weighing my options
Now I'm not saying I'm sleeping with everybody ( but if I did my body, my choice)
I've never just gone on dates to get to know multiple people at once
Understanding compatibility, finding out what I like and don't like 
With Multi-Dating communication is key and letting the other men know they aren't the only one
I've never multi-dated out of the fear of what others thought
Men have done this for years but women get slut-shamed for going on multiple dates 
Like Taylor Swift, she has dated her fair share of men, as she should 
It doesn't mean she slept with them all (and if she did, her body, her choice)
I really need to stop living in fear of people's thought and do what makes me happy


Dating A Non-Believer
I'm not here to judge anyone for their religion or lack thereof
I just know that I want a man who believes in God's Love
I've tried dating the atheist or the agnostic but I felt judged 
I shouldn't feel belittled for my faith
Not once didn't I try to force God on them
But the faces I'd get or the comments I would get for just praying or thanking God in a moment 
is not something I want. I want someone who I can study the Bible with
I want God  in the center of our relationship
What are some mistakes you've made when dating?

xoxo
Brittany Morgan 

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

Losing Weight Again!

I've been working out again for about a month now
More recently I've been going on walks with my friend
My body has been feeling so much better
Even though I'm sore after a workout 
It is totally worth it
I can already see a change in my body 
And there is definitely a change on the scale
My eating habits have changed a whole lot
Portion control is so important and I finally realized that
I don't feel hungry all the time nor do I like starving myself
I think my body was so ready for the lifestyle change
I see myself reaching my 40lbs down by July 10th more of a reality
After our recent walk I went to my local protein health place ( I'm sure there is a better name for it)

It was my first time getting their full service deal
-Aloe Shot
-Tea
-Shake ( Fruity Pebbles was the flavor I picked) 

I'm excited to see where this new lifestyle change will take me
I will keep you posted 
Til next time 
xoxo 
Brittany Morgan 




Thursday, March 7, 2019

My Current Hulu Binge Worthy List

I love a good binge watching session 
Hulu has a lot of shows that I've been hooked on
Some of the shows have ended , some are still on now
1. The Resident 


2. Hangin' With Mr. Cooper


3. Law And Order SVU

4. The Mindy Project

5. Private Practice

6. Desperate Housewives

7. Nashville

8. Superstore

Which shows are you watching?

xoxo
Britany Morgan

Tuesday, March 5, 2019

March Goals


This is only my second post of the year
My head space hasn't bee in the best place
It feels good to want to write again 

1. No Eating Out
I need to save more money and I get out way too much.
It's not like I don't have food at home 
I just get lazy and don't want to cook sometimes

2. Read 2 Books
My anxiety has been on high alert for the a fews weeks
My friends suggested a book to calm myself and escape for a bit

3. Be More Active
I have already reached my first weight loss goal of the year
Ive set another goal I'm happy with my weight loss journey 

4. Be More Active On My Instagram Accounts 
I have 3 instagram accounts that I barely use
I have some fun idea for 2 out of the 3 of my instagrams
I need to stop being scared and share the content I have

xoxo
Brittany Morgan

Wednesday, January 2, 2019

MY 2019 NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS

Happy New Year!
I took the first day of the year to relax and work on PIB
2019 is all about PIB 
I've invested more time and money into my blog already this year
Doing what  need to do to give your guys the best content I can this year
2019 is a year for me
Not a new me but to embrace the Brittany that has always been here
My weird, sassy, bubbly me
This year I need to focus on myself
Sometimes I give so much to others and at the end of the day I have nothing left for me
I'm not saying I'm turning into this cold-hearted person
At some point of your life you have to put yourself first
In 2019 I  need to make some major changes with my health
I love my body but I know I need to be healthier 
I need to lose weight 
This is a journey I need to take alone 
I'm excited to see where my health will be by the end of the year
Putting my health first is something I need to do for my future 
In 2019 I want to quit my job 
I want PIB as my  full-time job
It will take a lot of hard work and consistency to  achieve this but I find it reachable 
In 2019 I want to travel more 
I need to visit my grandparents they are number one on my list 
I want to go back to Vegas, I definitely need a re-do after the bullshit that happened on that trip
I'm finally getting my passport this year so I will getting a stamp by the end of the year
In 2019 I will no longer hold onto friendships/ relationships that bring nothing to my life and if i bring nothing to their life I have no purpose being there
I always felt like I couldn't be the one to cut ties with people 
So I would hold onto friendship or relationship that hurt me 
In 2019 I want a better friend  
I want to be a listener more than a talker
I want to be able to notice when to and not to bring my problems to friends
 I have to remember that they go through things also and sometime can't handle my problems on top of their
I've learned that about myself also 
Sometimes I  take on others problems when I need to get my head together first , so I can only imagine if I feel that way one of my friends have felt that way before
In 2019 I want to date again 
I will be 30 this year and I've only had one real relationship 
And I know there is no time table for falling in love 
But my heart is truly open to dating again
I'm finally in a good place and ready to let someone in again
I know what I want and I refuse to settle 
 ( I have a post in the works explain this)
In 2019 I want to grow closer to God
I want read the bible more 
And not just pray to him only when I need something 

I'm excited to see what 2019 has in store for me 
What are some of your resolutions?

XOXO
Brittany Morgan


Thursday, December 20, 2018

Thursday Thoughts: Blogmas Day 8

 Happy Thursday!
For all my OG followers you know Thursday thought is when I open up  and tell how I am feeling
( I think I might bring this back in 2019)

Gearing up for 2019 and I have so many decisions to make ( my moving situations is one of them)
I plan on moving from my current place. Finally moving away this small town
But I have no idea where to go
Should I leave Illinois?
Should I move back near the area I grew up?
Should I move near my grandparents?
Should I go somewhere new and start fresh?
The more are more question to come with that
Do I go alone?
Do I move with my brother?
( but he maybe moving with his boyfriends is so that a no for me)
Should  I get a place with my brother and our friend?
I personally feel like everyone has a backup plan but me 
( My brother has his boyfriend , our friend has her family)
I have six months to get all these questions answered
Wish me luck 
I'll keep you posted 

xoxo
Brittany Morgan

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

Vegas Baby! : Blogmas Day 7

I spent my 29th birthday in Las Vegas






It wasn't everything  I expected but that's what happens when you go 
on a trip with various personalities
I like to get up and go and explore the city 
when other rather lay in bed and explore the city at a different time
I fault no one but there was somethings that kinda rubbed me the wrong way
But my trip was amazing

Day one we got there so early our rooms weren't available yet so we had to leave our bags with the bellman
All I wanted to do it eat so we found a great place called Hash House A Go GO


The food was big and delicious after that all I wanted was booty rubs and nap ( all i got was the nap)
We stayed at Treasure Island great  place to stay for my first time to Las Vegas
The wonderful lady who checked us in treated each room to a bottle of champagne

 I had fun exploring the town and learning new things




I finally got to try In N Out



But the trip took a little turn day 2
The group split up and it kinda stayed that way the rest of the trip
I could tell you why but I don't even
Maybe  it was personalities
Maybe it was lack of interest of things
But I wasn't going to let that ruin my time
Thanks to an amazing promoter I was able to get into Tao nightclub and drink for free
When to clock struck 12 October 27th i was on the dance floor



I had an amazing brunch at the Mirage


I walked to strip

I even had time to relax by the pool



I toured Fremont
Birthday dinner at Maggiano's was delicious

 I even went to a Mob museum that was so cool
I even won a little money


Over all the trip was good minus some extra things but I'll keep those to myself for now
But next trip I will staying somewhere else and taking other travel buddies.
I will be going again
Next time on my terms

xoxo
Brittany Morgan