Seeing this tweet really got me thinking .
I use to be that girl . Chasing after a boy who didn't really won't her or only called when he was bored or wanted some
Yes I said girl , because I am now a woman and thank God I learned from my mistakes
And it doesn't have to be just romantic relationships it can be for family and friendships.
I feel if you really want me around and in your life you would put me there.
I've gotten to the point in my life where I'm tired of reaching out .
I feel like I'm always reaching out but there is no one there to grab my hand .
Wanting something that the other person doesn't
That never works
And I hate when people say they're '' BUSY"
We make time for things and people that are important to us .
If there is no effort put forward . I don't want to waste my time.
If I'm the one who is ALWAYS starting the convos via text or phone calls
And you can't take 2 secs out of your day just to check on me ( that's a problem )
I hate when people say " I was gonna .... " thats just bs to me .
If you really wanted to connect with me you would have
Its 2014 there are too many ways to talk to people ( text , call , Facebook , FaceTime , kik , twitter , instagram ) There are too many forms of communication .
Sorry if it seems like I'm bitching all the time . But sometimes I want to be " chased " .
I want to see that you care , that you can put some form of effort in .
In any relationship ( friendship , relationship , family ) it should be a 50/50 road and when I feel like I'm giving more than I'm receiving ( my time and my heart ) I'm going to slowly pull away and eventually just be done with you .
But enough of my ranting .
Til Next Time